The prevailing notion that usually seems to rule the day is this: I can't really be up unless someone else is down. I routinely live my life in a way that seems to assume that the true measure of happiness, peace, and order in life is determined by the sheer force of will (mine over someone else's). Through sin I gradually become the center of my own little universe and, if I keep heading down that road, I might actually begin to believe my own fantasy.
But
here's the funny and almost scandalous truth about all of this when
viewed through God's eyes - it's completely upside down! God comes to
the earth to save everyone from sin and death. But how does he do it?
Does God carry out this ultimate mission in a tough, forceful, and
mighty way? No. He is born. He is delivered like any other
regular, weak, completely dependent human child. He wails, he cries, and
he allows himself to actually experience need. He needs the
warmth of swaddling clothes and his mother's milk to survive. He lives
by the love of others. The God of the universe chooses to place his own
human life into the hands of a poor Galilean carpenter and his young
wife.Why in the world does God do this? To show that true power is found precisely in mercy and love, not fury and coercion. It is mercy and love that reign supreme. Love is not love at all when it's coerced, when it's forced upon another. Genuine peace, what Augustine called "tranquility of order," cannot exist where there is no love. In an atmosphere of hatred, revenge, and one-upmanship, love cannot breathe and it soon dies out. Most of what we think evinces true power is usually, in fact, a flash in the pan, a quick fix, a tree with no roots. When it's all said and done, earthly power always exhausts itself and the one who insists upon grasping it is never satisfied. Love and mercy alone satisfy the human heart.

